I consider Virginia one of the essential threads of the fabric of our island community and history. She is someone who was reliably there with her warm smile, a twinkle in her eye, quick wit and a curious mind. Whether seeing her at the Farmer’s Market, or on the ferry for her regular swim dates, or at gatherings with friends and community, seeing Virginia always lifted my spirits.
When I learned that she had passed, I was dismayed because I hadn’t even realized she was ill. I wept for the loss of her, and not being able to say goodbye. That night, she came to me in a dream, fully vibrant and smiling. I was so relieved, and told her that I thought she was gone, and I was so sad not to get to say goodbye. Then she gave me the warmest hug, which I could literally feel. I truly felt that she came to say goodbye, to take care of ME. That Virginia….. I will miss her.